I am tired and exhausted and just want to sleep. Erin and I were going to go to a coffee shop tonight, and I am too pooped. Speaking of “coffee shops,” I want to explore other coffee shops in the area, as I am getting tired of the three that I’ve been to – Chapter House, Bean Cafe, and Starbucks. I am even tired of Borders which is forever away and full of a bunch of homeless people and PC-users.
I am going to look up coffee shops here soon. There has to be an intimate one in the area. Chapter House is okay, but it’s crowded and modern and doesn’t really have the “bohemian” feel I am looking for. “Bohemian” may not even be the word… it’s just too modern and too crowded and you get a lot of college students. There are however plenty of mac users, which is good, but it’s all young college folks.
I miss the coffee shops in Burlington which are very down-to-earth, artsy, and intellectual. I miss that feel. They would have real local trees as their coffee tables and plants all around. They would often have live music…. there was a very authentic feel. I miss that… speaking of “Burlington,” I was going through my stuff today, putting stuff away, and I found the popular, tourist, cartoon-style map of Burlington from when we went on our trip a couple of weeks ago. I was tempted to cut it out and put it on the wall but didn’t want anymore clutter on the wall. I then thought of another idea: Framing it!
I thought to myself, “I need to feel like I’m at home when I’m in recovery,” and so it occurred to me that I could frame it. I haven’t framed it yet, but it’s just a passing thought. I probably would have by now, but I am exhausted. This is part of being ill; I am always tired. Granted, I did not get proper sleep last night, which complicates matters, but over all, I am not as energetic as I would like to be. Aside from lacking the energy, I am often in excruciating pain. I always have pain behind my ears… where the bone and jaw meet. It’s this dull, aching pain constantly… it often hurts so bad that I clench, both my hands and jaw, which then causes me a headache and eventually a migraine.
The ear/jaw bone pain is always there. 2 years ago I thought that by removing my wisdom teeth the pain would be eradicated but it didn’t make a difference; it remains. This pain started when I was in a very stressful, abusive relationship back in the fall of 2007. It has come and gone, but now it is pretty steady. I want to put a hot packet on it constantly to soothe it, but it only works so well.
I am also super duper sensitive to the heat and cold and have major heat and cold intolerance. When most people are wearing sweatshirts I am bundled up in a winter jacket, gloves, and a hat. When people are warm, I am extremely hot and need the AC. My eyes are also slightly yellow and “sick” looking — they have been this way since fall 2008 when I first became sick. I get fevers, the sweats, tingling in my hands, face, and feet. I am miserable. I have increased anxiety, depression, insomnia…
My mouth is always dry like cotton mouth, and it doesn’t matter how much water I drink; it won’t quell my dry mouth. I am constantly getting infections… especially in my fingers and nose. I am sick, and this lyme bacteria is killing me. The list goes on and is actually quite detailed. I have been tracking my symptoms steadily for 3-months now using a tracker. Granted, if I wanted to, I could go back through all of my old medical notes, but I barely have the energy to do that.
I want to get better, to feel better, and to be revitalized again. I want my health back!